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The life of a regular guy, going through irregular changes, looking for simple pleasures in life. Funny how seldom you can put simple and pleasure together. Everyone needs to believe in a GOD and I believe I can fill your believe. To you, I shall be GOD.

Thursday, April 13, 2006

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

It's at times when somehow something happens that makes you feel like deja' vu. Something bad happened once before and it scarred you deep enough but you grit your teeth, clenched your fist, took a deep breath and chose to forget it. Reason? The other party is your friend. Dear enough that you chose to wipe it all clean and forget the situation and since then, you realise that maybe you are not good enough of a friend. You try to buck up. You become more supportive of all he does, you, in short, try to make him feel your presence and hope that he appreciates you as a friend as you do to him. Time passes of course and it is always like this... you forgive once, and they expect the same should the same situation happens again. Upon confrontation, it seems, that what's done is for your own good. Why be so self-righteous? Why be a saint? Should you consider your friend hurting you as helping you? To make you realise? Maybe it does not work that way for all people. Who are you to judge as to who is right or wrong? Were you even there to see? If it was possible, you wish that you could have him live in your body for a day and let him feel how you feel. Maybe then he would not do what he did... but who knows? Who dictates who is the victim in any given situation? People act the way they do because they have different opinions and would undoubtedly feel that what they did is right. Sometimes you just wonder what your friendship is worth, if it could be measured, how would you fare as a friend?
How would I fare as a friend?
For me, a friend is simple yet everyone tend to complicate it. A friend is simply someone who stands with you, stands for you and stands you. Simple as that. Why all the *behind the back* talk? This may be the second time I am asking this on my blog but have I not done enough as a friend? Please... if in any way I can improve, do enlighten me. There must be some serious fault with me if this could happen to me again and again or as I questioned earlier, has friendship lost all its' worth? Friendship... I realise, no matter how long it lasted, could only take a minute to break. Is it worth it? Is friendship worth sacrificing for anymore?
Do friends talk bad about you in front of others? In a comical way, everyone laughs. Add a hint of seriousness to it, you will see sneers and jeers from them. And so again, how much is my friendship really worth... if it even has a value to it.

26 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe it is you who has the problem and that is why it happens to you again and again. Dont always think you're right and only look at things from one side of yours. Why do people talk behind your back and not about any other ppl instead? think about it.

10:33 AM  
Blogger Charles said...

I don't think I am always right but as I said, everyone is entitled to their opinion... and please do enlighten me as i said, as to where my problem lies... thank you for making your own judgment by saying that I always think I am right.

11:35 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

you're selfish so dont teach me what to do.. all u care about is yourself and ur god damn life.. well...

3:13 PM  
Blogger Charles said...

hahaha... since when did i teach you what to do? You seriously are so charming... why don't you go fuck a dog or something dear anonymous. What was it that I did to you? unless of course you are the person that i was referring to in the blog but of course i dun think that that person is so childish... if you are then... hahaha.

5:10 PM  
Anonymous sinhanz said...

FUCK THE WORLD!!!

5:17 PM  
Blogger cookiezmonsta' said...

Jia You Jia You!!! whoever the anonymous could be, i guess he/she is just too emotional reading your blog... anyhow, i am sure that if they are your REAL FRIENDS, they will do what they think its the best for you, no doubt, the way some ppl uses tends to be the way that u cant adapt to. its the same when u do something u think that its the best for him/her, he/she might not be able to adapt to ur it too, right? anyway chill lar... shits does happen, and remember one of ur posting here? "Let Bygones be Bygones" - dats what u and him/her needs to do now... and remember what i told u before... everyone's not perfect.. so lets face the fact that we're all not the 'saint' creature here! hugs!

6:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

oh charles u just got owned.. !!

7:17 PM  
Blogger ΅•º čħĸ åĸä ®ēåģăŇ© º•΅ ™ said...

dear anonymous... maybe u should think over some stuff before even putting ur shit in this page... first of all, u dun know charles... thus, it gives u no right to judge or say whatever fuck u want here... secondly, y do ppl talk behind his back and not others? actually, how sure are u that they are only talking behind his back and not others! u think abt it... with an attitude like urs, there should be tonnes talking behind ur back... i am now...
people talk behind his back because they have no fucking balls to talk to him face to face... ppl talk behind his back because they feel somehow inferior towards him... ppl talk behind his back because they want to ruin his life... its not ALL because of what Charles did or how he bahaves or anything... u too got to think over things and not only think on their side... y not try putting urself into Charles' shoes and think on his side... maybe u cant coz u do not know him but I am someone who has stayed with him for 21years so i fucking know him well... what i wanna say to u is just to FUCK OFF and not put any of ur SHITS here!!!

SinHan... FUCK THE WORLD... LOL... hahaha... should FUCK ANONYMOUS!!! ish ish

9:17 PM  
Blogger cookiezmonsta' said...

waaa reagan... wanna be like dat meh... be a good boy and everybody gonna love u... huahuahuahuahua.. anyway u are rite la... being an outsider wont be able to feel what charles is feeling rite now, cus he's da one facing the situation right now, and not us... anyway im sure charles noes how to handle this kind of situation, like what he said, "People make mistakes and mistakes make better people" - Go Go Jia You!!!

btw - guess this is Charles' blog hottest Post! Keewwwwwllll!!!

10:25 PM  
Blogger faridz7 said...

mr/miss anonymous is very the emo it seems.

i know how charles can be a better friend to me. by not double booking a football court. other than that i think charles is a very good friend. whos weight fluctuates regularly, that is. but still sexy of course.

6:53 AM  
Blogger Charles said...

thank you guys

9:52 AM  
Anonymous Darrell said...

charles u need to comb ur hair..its messy just like my fatt choy... haha

10:28 AM  
Anonymous Darrell said...

hmm "fuck the world"? sinhan is coming up with all sorta random comments lately.. i think he's depressed.. maybe lack of sex or maybe been eating too much

10:31 AM  
Anonymous Sinhan said...

Better keep ur comments bout me to urself before u get badly hurt. Thanx. and before i forget grow up mother fucker... get a brain or something cibai!!

3:30 PM  
Blogger Charles said...

chill dudes... nothing that a few beers can't solve right?
Come to think of it, we are all alike... we smoke. Shit... is that all?

3:37 PM  
Anonymous sinhan said...

ehh darrell how come u always talk without using ur brains? ur mom smoked pod when she was pregnant? not happy tell me at my face... Pussy!!

3:39 PM  
Anonymous J a n e l l e said...

Have you ever heard of this saying?
'When we don't like ourselves, we irritate other people.'
I supposed that the one who do all those 'behind-the-back' talk doesn't like him/herself or don't enjoy being him/herself and that's why he/she is trying his/her best to irritate you by talking behind your back...:)
As i always say...Don't get angry because of someone who doesn't deserve to be your friend....
Cheerz dear...

9:22 PM  
Anonymous darrell said...

hmm nice comments there janelle :)

1:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

very good darrell!! "chang" more..

2:23 AM  
Blogger wernshen said...

for the record, the mystery commenter wasnt me
hahaha havent been online since friday
god damned pc fair *grrrrr*

3:06 AM  
Anonymous kim yew said...

dude, i dont know what is goin on here... not to be bias or anything... why dont each of u guys think back to the root of the problem, why out of the sudden this shits happen... and why dont all of u guys come out and settle face 2 face, whats the point talkin over here, talked about childishness... leavin a comment here wont help but instead makin the pile of shits bigger...

well guess u guys dont have the courage to face each other, sigh...
maybe im not in the position to judged u guys, but i also want the situation back to normal...
and by the way if u guys have any C&C feel free to msg me, personally... - peace out niggers -

1:30 PM  
Anonymous kim yew said...

and for the ppl who r supporting their friends...pls dont make it worst...let them settle it themselve...

1:40 PM  
Blogger faridz7 said...

22 comments and counting! dayummmm! dont really know whats going on here but...kim yew is not a sexy beast. :)

3:33 PM  
Blogger ΅•º čħĸ åĸä ®ēåģăŇ© º•΅ ™ said...

y not create a chat room for this huh!!! not really sensible to talk here rite? lol... ciz... SinHan so emo adi ar!!

8:44 PM  
Blogger Charles said...

Kim Yew - Not meeting up face to face 'for the time being' I believe is best to actually avoid making the matter worst. Given enough time to cool down and breathe, it will definitely do everyone good.

Anyway, thank you guys for all your concern and support.

10:41 AM  
Blogger raz said...

i thought this blog post was about the 'friends' tv show, apparently its not

12:10 PM  

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